Dialysis does not lower your libido. Maybe initially, but as long as you still have blood running through your veins, you got to have it when you want it. If you have a catheter in your abdomen for the PD dialysis then roast chicken style is just out of the question. You certainly do not want anyone pressing on your vital catheter. Besides, the fullness of your stomach from all the dialysis fluid stored in there renders that action not pleasurable. Get creative folks. I am not suggesting that you become some acrobat or you get into 101 ways to please your lover. If you are young, go for it. But, if you are like me, with age on your body, you need to lie down. Can't stand up and touch my toes. I would surely fall over and damage my catheter. If you have ever had a colonoscopy you will get the drift. For those who haven't and are still waiting for the big bang, just lie on your side in the fetal position and get your action.
If you are on hemodialysis, then you do not need to worry about catheter in your stomach. But, rather the one in your neck. You can enjoy your roast chicken style but you still need to worry in the heat of the action, your neck catheter does not get ripped off. Go for the colonoscopy style.
If you are fortunate to have the button hole in your arm to do your dialysis, then by all means go for your avalanche of throbbing pleasure any way you want. But wait. You got to worry about putting too much weight on your arm, hence you have to do the balancing act.
Now let us not forget that love making is not only penetration. Intimacy, holding hands, taking
small or long walks, dancing, laughing together, communicating, taking out the garbage, doing
the dishes, occasionally accompanying your partner to dialysis sessions, having a meal waiting
after dialysis or buying a meal and have it waiting. Whatever works for your budget.
For the men out there---Just remember, no one is looking for you to be Superman in the bedroom. Take your time and work with what you've got. Spend more time with the prelude.
After all, you want that three minutes to look more like 40 minutes.